What are some red flags you need to pay attention to in your current relationship? Here are the top 5 signs you have to look out for.

1. Your closed ones don’t support your partner choice.

Without a doubt, you should consider your loved ones’ approval for your partner. While they might not have the final say on who you can date or marry, you should pay attention to their advice. In a relationship, sometimes it is easy to bypass your lovers’ wrong action or even big flaws.
As a result, this is where your family or friends stand-in. They are the ones that have stayed by your side for a long time and even understand you better than the one you are dating. So if your partner gives them a wrong vibe, they would probably be the first ones to raise it to you. Until then, do pay attention to what they say and consider.

2. The lack of trust:

We always believe that trust is an important factor to maintain a healthy relationship. As it’s not easy to gain trust in the beginning, once you earn your partner’s assurance, you should never break it. Because if one of you lose your trust, this is one of the red flags that guarantee a dying relationship. For a healthy relationship, you are always secure in the understanding that others won’t hurt or betray them. For example, you won’t need to go through your partner’s phone, or constantly trying to find out where they are.

3. Maybe marriage will fix your relationship’s problem?

Besides losing trust, resolving your problem by jumping into marriage is another red flags action! You should never consider marrying your partner and then hoping the issue will solve itself. Overall, not many people will change after marriage. Sure, maybe they will try to improve themself for your sake, but changing will hardly happen. And once things spiral down out of control, your relationship won’t last long.

4. Your partner doesn’t want to get married?

While we can’t say 100 percent of couples in the world want to get married at some point, providing that others want to pursue another type of civil relationship. Of course, you don’t have to get married to maintain a relationship. However, what we want to talk about is the feeling of settling. If you want to but your partner doesn’t, it can cause a problem in your relationship. You would probably start thinking that maybe they don’t want to be your spouse, or they don’t believe in it? This is a question you need to find the answer to.

5. You think your partner is too good for you:

If you have watched How I Met Your Mother series, you might be familiar with this concept. Furthermore, you can see it on the way people usually talk about ‘leagues’. One might think it’s best to settle for someone who is ‘in their leagues’. However, this is indeed one of the most significant red flags for your relationship. We cannot stress this enough, this is not how one should feel about their lover. You can cherish and has respect for your lover, but you should not feel less worthy. A relationship is a two-way connection, you should always consider this. You and your lover both have your own contributions, skills, capabilities and admirable qualities.